Thursday, July 9, 2009

Losing someone you love

Normally,
when approached with the question"Have you ever lost someone you love?" I would presume that the word"lost"in that question would mean most likely due to a death. My reply for the past twenty-two years has been "no", thankfully. Today, someone asked me the same question and I stopped and contemplated, and I decided to change my reply to "yes".
I believe we have all lost someone we've loved, from a death, or possibly maybe even a breakup. I have gone through my fair share of breakups that have been
excruciatingly painful. Wether or not it is you doing the breaking up or your partner, you are still losing that person, sometimes never to communicate with them again, and that is heart breaking. Dating someone for days,weeks,months, or years, and in a matter of a couple words it gets thrown out the window for a multitude of reasons and/or excuses. Marrige these days is not even concreate, Since 2005 the divorce rate has decressed, but sadly so has marrige. That means what... I should just plan on not getting married?In that case, what are girls that dream of that fairy tale endings, and happily ever afters, supposed to do?Thanks a lot, Disney.I guess I am just going to have lose a couple more people I love until I do get my happily ever after. I refuse to settle for anything less than a "Disney Ending" in my love life, and neither should you.=)

2 comments:

  1. awe, that is such good sense right there,
    we have all lost somebody. People, friends come an go. That's a part of life we just have to accept I guess, I like your blog

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